Monday, May 30, 2011

Weekly Check-In (28 weeks)

How far along? 28 weeks, 5 days
Weight gain/loss: +20 pounds, down 1 from last week. This is possibly because we're having a heat wave in NY and all I've done is sweat for the last week.
Maternity clothes? Yup, everything but sweats and the big t-shirts I sleep in.
Sleep? I'm still sleeping great! Totally jinxed the whole getting up to pee thing. I have been getting up at least once if not twice to go to the bathroom. It's really not a big deal though, I usually fall right back to sleep.
Best moment this past week?
It's been a rough week but I think I figured out the whole calve cramps thing. I added another 20oz of water to my day and they seem to have disappeared. That's a good thing!
Sex: We're having a boy!
Belly button in or out? In, but it's looking very little.
Movement: Lots and lots! Now Bill, my sister, my mom, and my mother in law have felt him kick :)
What I miss? I still really want a drink.
What I'm looking forward to this week: Getting the 3 hour glucose test over with and hopefully having a better week than last week. We started looking at baby names again and we're pretty much set between two of them. Of course I like one and Bill likes the other. I think I can bring him over to my side though!
Milestones: From babygaga.com, "your little explorer's eyes are doing lots of blinking this week because they’re now responding to light and dark!And in life-critical physical developments: your champ's tiny industrious bone marrow is now a major construction site for blood cells, while their super-cute adrenal glands are actually producing androgen and estrogen — which will stimulate your body to begin milk production."
Labor Signs: Braxton Hicks here and there.
Picture: can't find my camera :( Who loses a camera. I'll try and take a decent picture with my phone later
Edit: Here's my crappy cell phone pic from 29 weeks

Friday, May 27, 2011

Glucose Screening Results

I failed :(

The doctor's office called today to tell me I scored 134 and they use the cutoff of 130. So now I have to go for the 3 hour test on Wednesday. I'm pretty bummed that I'll have to do the test and that I'll have to miss a day of work for it. I'm pretty sure that the chocolate I accidentally ate before my test (I could kick myself) is the culprit but it's best to go for the test and be sure. Ugh, more to add to my list of crappy things.

Trying not to whine

I have to say, I've been extremely lucky in my pregnancy so far. I never had traditional morning sickness, I never threw up. I had food aversions and bionic fatigue for a couple of weeks but my first trimester really wasn't that bad. Second trimester was filled with tons of energy and weight gain that is on the high end but not enough to worry doctors. I felt pretty great. Until this week.

Depending on who you ask, the third trimester either starts at week 27 or week 28. My doctor and my favorite pregnancy book (The Pregnancy Countdown Book) say that week 28 is the beginning of the third trimester and I definitely felt it on Wednesday when I hit the 28 week mark. I had a few charlie-horse type leg cramps back in the second tri and my doctor recommended upping my calcium intake. That helped and the cramps disappeared for the most part. This week though, they are back with a vengeance. I got one in my left leg Tuesday night/early Wednesday morning and the knot is still there and still painful. Last night, I got a cramp in my right leg and the cramp is still a dull pain. I can't walk normally without it hurting. I tried stretching both legs out all day yesterday and last night before bed but it doesn't seem to be doing anything. Wahhh.

Then, yesterday I went for my bridesmaids dress fitting since I'm in a wedding on June 11. I ordered the dress back in January and got it 3 sizes bigger (eek!) and when it came in a month ago, I was swimming in it. Yesterday, it was huge in the boobs, shoulders, and back but slightly tight in the belly. The back puffed out in a way that made my butt look super extra wide as well as flat.

The seamstress was slightly baffled. She said we could take out the pleats in the back to make the back more flattering and free up some fabric for the front but in order to make the front look right we need to basically lift it up to an empire waist dress which then makes the hem length too short. There is a little bit of fabric they can let out in the hem to make it longer but I'm nervous. I go back tomorrow for another fitting and will go again the week of the wedding to make sure it all fits.

Ok, whining over. It's been a rough week between finding out that my cousin and his wife used the name we had picked out, the cramps, and the dress fitting. The good news? I am healthy. The baby is healthy. I have a wonderful husband who is my strength. I have a fabulous, supportive family. And of course, we're having a baby! It will all be worth it, I just know it.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Three in one day

Ok, I've had time to reflect a little bit on my day.

1) Hopefully my brainfart doesn't mess up my 1 hour glucose screening results, they will let me know how it went in the next day or two. Good news: they think the baby is head down now!

2) I'm very upset about the whole baby name thing but I have no one to blame or be mad at. I'm disappointed and sad that we can't use the name anymore. Some might say to go ahead and use it but this situation is different. Probably the most significant reason is the fact that my cousin's wife and I used to be best friends. We met in 9th grade and were the best of friends for about 10 years. We had our ups and downs but we ended up growing apart and had a big falling out about 2 years ago. Shortly after our falling out she started dating my cousin. My family is big, 21 grandchildren with all but 2 living in Syracuse, but we see each other a lot. They had a quick-ish relationship and got engaged about 2 months after Bill and I did and got married this past July. Things are awkward to say the least between us. She has not earned many brownie points with my family and not many of us like her. I can't use the same name as them. I'd feel like I was trying to steal their thunder or something.

I know that we will find another name and that the important thing is that our baby is healthy. He will be our son regardless of what name we choose. We'll end up liking the name we choose better because it will be his name.

I know all this but it just hurts so bad. She and I have a major history of her screwing me over and I feel like she did it again, even though she doesn't know it.

I told my sister and my parents about this and that's it. No one else will know. I don't want to make their exciting news about me and I don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that she got to me again.

It's time to move on and go back to the drawing board.

Our baby is no longer, Owen.

Baby Name

My cousin Casey and his wife had their baby boy today. I'm so happy for my cousin. They used our baby name. They didn't know we had decided on it and we don't own it. I'm devastated anyway.

Glucose Screening

I'm an idiot. I have my glucose screening scheduled for 2:15 today. They office told me to eat normally all day but nothing too sugary so I had eggs for breakfast and a snack of baby carrots. So far, so good. In order to make my appointment on time, I had to take a half day from work which means leaving at 11:30. I got home around noon and Bill was doing dishes so I was standing in the kitchen talking to him and absentmindedly grabbed about 8 M&Ms from a container and popped them in my mouth. I didn't even notice until after I had swallowed them that I ate a very sugary snack! Crap! I hope this doesn't mess up my test results...

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Weekly Check-In (27 weeks)

How far along? 27 weeks, 5 days
Weight gain/loss: +21 pounds, up 1 from last week. Uhg.
Maternity clothes? Yup, everything but sweats and the big t-shirts I sleep in.
Sleep? I'm still sleeping great! I don't want to jinx this but I rarely even get up to pee in the middle of the night :)
Best moment this past week?
Getting the new nursery cleared out and ready to be painted. Oh and we started registering, finally!
Sex: We're having a boy!
Belly button in or out? In, but it's looking very little.
Movement: Lots and lots! Now Bill, my sister, my mom, and my mother in law have felt him kick :)
What I miss? I still really want a drink.
What I'm looking forward to this week: Getting the new baby room painted and finishing registering.
Milestones: From babygaga.com, "your child's lungs are already capable of breathing air as their vascular system can now handle oxygen/carbon exchange and their brain stem can now regulate rhythmic breathing as well as their basal body temperature!"
Labor Signs: Braxton Hicks have stopped.
Picture: